~The insights of crappy Jasmine gal~: SO WHAT!!!

Thursday, July 13, 2006

SO WHAT!!!

YES!!!! I love to spend money on useless stuff.. I can buy dozens of earrings even though i have no ear holes.. Spent money on some bracelets although i only have two wrists.. Wasted my money on a slimming package that costed a bomb to maintain.. SO WHAT!!

I cant spend my money to destress? I cant surround myself with useless items just for the sake of feeling happy when i buy them? So what if you are a degree student? I know your pay is easily double of mine when you grad, but so what?It is my money, right?

To think i thought i can seek comfort online.. Ended up i am just alone everywhere, in reality and virtual.. why am i even alive in this world?

13 Comments:

Dont be too hard on yourself Jasmine. You spent your money the way you want to because you have earned it. So no matter what people says, ignore them.

Like me, I worked hard to get up to earning a high wage as I did not grad from university, but alot of my friends have. But they dont appreciate it like I do.

My motto is work hard and play hard.

So you go girl... its your money, you've worked hard for it, and do whatever you want to do with it.

By Anonymous, at 7:04 AM
Stanley: Thank you. It helps to read encouraging msgs like this.. Especially when things are all going haywire...

By Jaschocolate, at 9:00 AM
dun chup siao whatever the person said, you spend the money that you earn yourself, not her money...she chup siao so much for what.

do what you like, just dun over-spent until no $$ can liao! ;)

By chartao, at 9:19 AM
hey sis, juz ignore them lar..as long as u r happy with urself, dun bother abt wat they have to say..n you r definitely NOT alone

By gracey, at 9:34 AM
hey hey...who agitated you??

aiyah...just ignore them. it's your life, your money, your entitlement.

just tell them, "am i spending your money? no?" then pass a zipper to them. ;P

By Anonymous, at 9:43 AM
Aiyoh.... Think you two had a misunderstanding lah.... Don't fight leh :(

By Sibeh Sian, at 12:28 PM
wa...i hope its not me you are referring to... i only asked why u need the ice cube maker... =|

By Anonymous, at 12:10 AM
Ya lor. Please don't fight. Cool down okay.

By Zhe Bin, at 12:23 AM
leonard: Thanks, i know.. i just to always have the $500 inside my bank, otherwise will deduct $2 leh :p

Sis: Thanks sis, i need a hug from you!!!

absolutjoiz: I am just too sensitive to comments.. Haiz..

sibeh sian: It is NOT a misunderstanding.

weige: err.. unless you turn into a female, otherwise not you.. But hor, you better double check your gender :p

zhebin: I guess that it was similar to what happen to both you and me the last time... I must apolognise to you if I was too hard on you, but the issue then was always giving me nightmares..

I guess i must keep in mind that weight is a sensitive issue for all females. To me, if someone said i am fat or plump or whatever, I accepted it cos it is true mah.. But for others, maybe they are so sensitive that they cant take a joke.. Sometimes, the truth is that they are not even fat but it is just meaningless bantering between close friends.

Guess i misinterpret who are my close friends.. Next time, i must always ask, "Are we considered close?" before daring to make a simple joke..

Aquaintances cant take jokes, i guess.. They can only be "hi" and "bye" friends, with no connection in life.. just two separate paths that may cross each other occasionally.

I will always show respect to all.. but if life means no jokes and no fun, then well.. it is boring to me..

Tons of jokes had been made on my expenses.. Although i am mad, i just take it in my stride. Sometimes i throw it back in the person's face. But most of the time, i ignore.

I guess i wont be so damn mad if everything is sailing smoothly in my life. But well, both of us are trying to let off some steam online..

But I have the feeling that it is the end.. I really do.. As both of us are too strongheaded to make up and I guess this is it...

By Jaschocolate, at 9:36 AM
basically i think that you are just too sensitive and too IN ya world, maybe you won't understand what i mean now but once you take another step into society you will. Childishness in life will never get you far.. just remember that.

By Anonymous, at 7:44 PM
ibi3d: Can you elaborate more on what that "next step" means?

By Jaschocolate, at 11:22 PM
Hi Jas,

I've been reading your blog for sometime, i don't normally leave comments, but here's one anyway. (^_^)

I also like to spend $$$, Especially my hard earned $$$! I use to argue with my bf all the time. Its my $$$ wad! Why can't I use them?!

But when things happen, my savings were not enough for me to fallback on. Seriously. So It's always good to leave some savings for emergency.

I'm not saying you should stop spending the $$$ you earn. But you don't have to buy things you don't need. Cause if you think about it, these stuff just lie around and collect dust and eventually, you either give/throw them away or lose them.

I hope you won't find me nosey... :p

And sometimes, only true friends tell you the truth. May not be what you want to hear, but its for your well-being.

Cheers,
spuid

By Jia, at 2:41 PM
spuid: I agree that i really need to spend less and i will start to plan more wisely.

Unfortunately, my friend is not saying that for my well-being as she did not ask me not to spend. All she said was she was not like me, who can spent so much on things..

By Jaschocolate, at 9:13 PM